Archive | April, 2011

It’s Coming to a Blog Near You

29 Apr

Fiction Friday

Dum, dum, dum, DUM!

Fiction Friday begins next week!

Write a piece of fiction – short or long, good or bad, funny or serious – we’ll read it and provide feedback.  We are not critiques, but cheerleaders, encouraging you to write, write, WRITE.

Please spread the word.  Tell your friends, family, neighbors and fellow blog readers.  There’s an opportunity for writers to sharpen their pencils, mince their words, and practice their craft.  There will be many eager readers and supporters.

The rules are as follows:

  1. Write fiction.
  2. Provide a link back to my Fiction Friday post right here on The Domestic Fringe.
  3. Add your specific URL to the Mr. Linky (provided next week on my blog).
  4. Read other blogger’s fiction and give some comment love.
  5. Throw caution to the wind and take a chance.

I added number five for me, because yesterday I panicked a little at the thought of letting you read my fiction.

I’m plain uncomfortable posting my writing, and I mean the kind of uncomfortable that comes when you’re wearing jeans that are two sizes too small and then you eat a Thanksgiving dinner.  The discomfort cannot be ignored.

I write here nearly every day and it’s easy.  I know my life, the funny things my children say, and the silly situations I put myself in.  I live my blog, but fiction is an unknown and scary world.

I don’t know my characters well enough to introduce them to you.  I cannot even predict what they will do or say.  I’m just gaining their trust.  Can I present them to you already?

Are you even ready to meet them?

I am not ready for introductions, but I’m going to risk it all.  I hope you will too.  Please don’t allow fear of failure to stop you from writing, from doing what you love.

Join us next Friday when we all showcase our writing.  I’ll be here.  will you?

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The funny thing is I am not even here today!  I am in Vermont visiting with old friends from Maine and going to a concert.  You call people from Maine Mainers, but what do you call people from Vermont?

Vermonters?  Vermontians?  Vermins?

No, can’t me that.

Enlighten me oh wise ones.

Hope you enjoy your weekend as much as I am sure to be enjoying mine.  Happy Friday!

Thankfulness – One Squat at a Time

28 Apr

This morning after allergy shots, we ran by the library.  My son wanted to pick up a book he had ordered.  We never, ever leave the library with just one book and today was no exception.  The librarian gave us a bag for our bounty and she granted me a couple of extra days on the Thighs of Steel video from 1989.  I’ll be de-celluliting my thighs with Denise Austin for ten days instead of seven.

And I’m thankful.

Please remind me I said that in about four days when my calf muscles seize and  I can no longer climb my stairs.

  • exercise
  • banana bread with icing (hence the need for exercise)
  • silly photos of my daughter

Do you know what I’ve discovered since I started keeping a Thank You journal?

Once you begin being thankful, you become more thankful.  Granted, some days are easier than others, but regardless of the circumstance, if you choose to give thanks, you become thankful.

  • fun socks
  • allergy shots
  • laundry done
  • a full sink of dishes, the sign of a good dinner
  • virtual bowling

Somehow giving thanks opens your eyes to all the good going on around you.  Thanks is in the little and big.

  • the first ice-cream cone of the season (insert lunges, leg lifts and crunches)
  • flowers in bloom
  • the cross
  • encouragement from bloggers
  • a party invite
  • a picnic dinner by the river
  • 1,100 words into fiction
  • a faded American flag flying tattered stripes
  • a lost boy found
  • birds chatting
  • warmth that draws out the prickliest of neighbors

Are you thankful today?

Please do share.  Thankfulness is contagious, so spread it around.

You can even join us by clicking on the buttons below!



By the way…

Heather from Adventures in Womanland is starting up a new online Bible study called Humor Me, Lord.   I can’t wait.  Won’t you join us?

Ok, I’m done.  Promise. (fingers crossed)

What I Love is Sunshine

27 Apr

Welcome to What I Love Wednesday – Sunshine Edition.

In between hide and seek with the clouds, I think I actually got sunburn today.  That’s how marshmallow white I am.  With every day of foul weather, I resemble the Pillsbury Dough Boy more and more.  It’s time to set this gooey body in the sunshine and get deep-fried like a southern tomato.

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The other day FringeMan told me he thought an animal was living under our outside front steps.

“Why do you think that?”  I asked, saddened by the thought of yet another pest problem.

This winter I fought the mice and the mice I won.  Crown Fringeman me Domestic Rodent Eliminator.  Spring brought ants in my pants the house.  Now what are we to do with a porch dweller?

“Well, there’s a big hole going under the steps.  An animal must be burrowing.”  FringeMan explained.

I hung my head.  A two-legged animal in a pink polka-dot dress burrowed her horse farm into that hole.

Don’t fear the random skunk or mole, it’s the kids you need to trap!

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What I love this Wednesday is SUNSHINE.

It’s good for my spirit.

Please join me over at Lollipops for What I Love Wednesday posts.
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A New Day for Fiction Writers

26 Apr

It’s all settled. Fiction Friday will be hosted right here on The Domestic Fringe.  I’ll pull out all the stops and throw a Linky into my post.

Now you’re excited, aren’t you?

I really owe this idea to Teresa Marie at Precious Grains of Sand.  Teresa Marie, thank you for the suggestion!

Ok, here are the rules:

  1. Any FICTION is acceptable.  Flash Fiction – Novel – Short Story – Whatever, as long as it’s fiction.
  2. Please include a link at the end of your post that will send people back to the current Fiction Friday post on The Domestic Fringe.  This will ensure your blog readers have a chance to read other works.
  3. Please leave a link (on the provided Mr. Linky) to your specific Fiction Friday blog post.  Please make sure the url is for a specific post and please make sure it’s fiction.

Do any of you make blog buttons?  Or, do any of you know someone who makes blog buttons at a reasonable price?  I’d love to have a blog button that everyone can add to their post and sidebar.

If you are planning to participate or just like to read fiction, please help me spread the word.

Fiction Friday begins May 6th, the first Friday in May.  I contemplated starting this Friday, but it’s probably too soon.  I’d love to have as many people participate as possible, so let’s give it a week for word to circulate.

Remember the more you spread the word, the more people will read your fiction.

I’m really excited.  I think this will fun, but more importantly, I know it will be a learning experience.

So if you are on Twitter, Tweet.  If you know writers on facebook, post a status update.  If you blog, blog away.  If you read, tell your friends and book club.

Fiction Friday on The Domestic Fringe – You can’t beat free reads!

This & That (but mostly that) and Writing

25 Apr

I really have nothing to say to you (world of blog readers, friends, and family), so I’m not sure why I’m blogging.
(My son doesn’t know what to do with his hands in pictures.  Me either!)

I thought about recapping Easter, but it’s over.  I feel a little like it’s old news, not Jesus’ resurrection, because that’s never old. Just my day – Easter pictures – church – going to sleep at 8 o’clock with a migraine – the great egg hunt with one grumpy (he must have woken up too early) son…you know, the traditional recap.

(Winter beat my porch to death.

Looks like I have another painting project.

Let’s call it Shabby Snow-Beaten Chic.

It’s trendy in my part of the world)

For some reason I feel like Easter was long ago, not yesterday. I guess this has already been a long Monday.

I’m pretty excited about going to Vermont this weekend. We will attending a Michael W. Smith concert on Friday night and visiting with old friends from Maine who now live in Vermont. About a month ago FringeMan and I decided that we needed to do more fun things. Sometimes we get stuck in the work and responsibility mode and forget to take some time just to do something out of the ordinary, something fun. So FringeMan surprised us with concert tickets. Fun!

I was skimming through a book in the library last week.  I can’t remember the title of the book, but in included authors talking about the craft of writing.  Most only had their second attempts at a novel published.  The first basically turned into a practice run.  They wrote, they realized their mistakes, they grew as a writer and then wrote a successful novel.  I’m pretty sure this is normal, at least it was normal for all the very famous novelists mentioned in this book.  I know writers with blogs have attested to having an unpublished early manuscript or two lying around.

So, I’ve been thinking…

Scary, huh?

Maybe I should just take this (my first) story idea that’s rolling around in my head and slowly making its way to a Microsoft Word file called Murder in Maine (not the title, but I’m terrible with titles and not worrying about it now), and use it as a practice book.  Kinda my first run down a new slope and not my Olympic gold medal run.

You know what I mean?

I’m thinking about writing it a little bit at a time and posting each installment right here on my blog.  I’d probably pick one day a week to post this practice book.

I have two reasons for wanting to do this.

  1. It will help keep me motivated.  Writing an entire novel is a bit overwhelming, but writing the story one blog post at a time seems perfectly doable.
  2. I will get feedback.  We always think our stories are good, but it would be nice to get an outside opinion (although I may regret that statement), both critique and encouragement.
  3. Ok, I guess I have three reasons. :-)   After a year of blog posts, I’ll have a complete book.  Sure, it will probably just get thrown in a drawer, but it will still be an accomplishment.

I have a sneaking suspicion writers will say this is a bad idea.  Everyone seems very private about their writing and book ideas.  I just think if this is basically a practice novel, I may as well use a tool (my blog) that will help keep me on task and give me the experience I need to write my best-seller.

What do you think?

It’s because of Amazing Love

22 Apr

Amazing love how can it be? 

That thou my God would die for me.

Thanks Brings Sunshine

21 Apr

I woke to gray, rain beating a rhythm on the cold world.  Plodding through coffee, phone calls, third-grade multiplication, and peddling, my attitude drowned in the dank of sad.

My thankful list lay closed, forgotten.  How easily I trade thanksgiving for complaint, joy for sadness.  I feel like Esau selling his birthright for a pot of stew.

I lose focus.  I see damp.  I see darkness.  I see selfishness.  My glasses spotted with drops.  Reality blurs.  I must give thanks.

  • warm socks
  • friends from afar
  • my daughter’s nearness
  • words on paper

I run to open my notebook, my storehouse of beautiful, love, and gifts.  My one hundred twenty and growing.

  • seeing family on Skype
  • chocolate ice-cream
  • exercise induced endorphins

Thanksgiving and complaint cannot share a heart.  One always consumes the other.  Choices are ripe for my picking.  Today I pick thanks, and the sun peeks from behind a cloud.  My heart cannot be both clouds and sunshine.  I continue to choose thanks.

  • children pulling weeds
  • a clean house
  • Friday afternoon
  • fresh groceries
  • a flower in my daughter’s hair

Sunshine finds a home in my soul.  The clouds can stay outside.  I am not allowing them in, not today.  Today I give thanks.

  • a loving God
  • a bathroom sink with running water
  • misplaced college students
  • the days end

Will you give thanks today?

Join us Here & HERE.

I Love Socks

20 Apr

Today I’m participating in What I Love Wednesday over at Lollipops.  It’s a fun little blog full of pretty.  You should go visit and see what everyone loves!
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Today I love socks.  I just can’t help myself.  I’m one of those annoying people who go to bed with my socks on.  I despise cold toes and my toes are always cold.

Dare I admit something so shocking you may sever our friendship?

The other day I sported a pair of flip-flops, the athletic sneaker kind and not the thin slick of cheese kind or the fancy ‘dress flop’, with a pair of thick pink socks.

Yes, I did.

I live in shame, because people saw me.  Many people.

Hello.  My name is Tricia and I (on occasion) wear socks and flops.  Forgive me please?

I know you won’t forget, we humans rarely do, but can we still be friends?

Good, because I have some super-fun socks to show you today.  You’ve never ever seen anything like them.  I can gar*RUN*tee IT!

Have you ever seen such Ah-Mahzing socks?

Of course you haven’t!

Because you haven’t seen my friend Wendy’s socks.

Wendy is the most talented and truly sweet woman I know.  Going to her house is a treat, because her love of all things beautiful and fun spills from her soul and pretties everything she touches.  My daughter is completely taken with Wendy.  You cannot come away from her home without wanting to grab a paint brush and start creating.  She inspires.  She encourages.  She gives.

She paints socks.

Go visit her website HERE.  You’ll love what you find.

This Wednesday I love socks, but not just any socks, Watermelon Seed socks!

Thank you Wendy for sharing your talent and being pretty on the inside and out.

My Almost Done Bathroom

19 Apr

FringeMan and I may be the slowest home renovation duo in our country.  Is there an award for that?

We don’t mean to gut a bathroom, live in the wreckage for three months, install a tub, live in the wreckage for three months, hang a light, live in the wreckage for three months, but we’re mighty proficient at living in the wreckage for three months stalling.

Judging from the spots on the faucet,

I’m not up for a housekeeper of the year.

I’ve already cried over my 3 1/2 years of lost pictures, so I won’t writhe in pain over them today.  I will say that my ‘before’ photos went the way of The Great Picture Loss of 2011.   Now all we have for ‘before shots’ are my words and the post D.I.Y = Cry.

Before I begin to recount our personal saga with the loo, I must warn you – We Are Not Done With The Bathroom!

It’s a shock, I know.

We need trim for the baseboards and for the door.  We need a cabinet to house our extra toilet paper and towels.  We need trim for the shower head and handle.  But, it’s very close to being done.  The hole you see in the ceiling is actually a fan without the cover.  Where is the cover you ask?  Good question.  I’ll Google it.  Someone’s gotta know!

Now I wish I could show you pictures of fancy tile and soaking tubs, but get real this is a budget renovation we prefer simple.

Our bathroom is small; however, when we first bought the house, our bathroom was half its current size, meaning we needed Weight Watchers just to fit in the shower.  Let’s not even remember the shower.  You know it’s bad when Scrubbing Bubbles run from the job.  Even FringeMan, the man who once painted the interior of his shower, recognized we needed a new shower.  On the other side of the micro-loo was a small closet.  FringeMan broke down the walls and we have a reasonable size lavatory.

In real life, it was not that easy, but I’ll spare you the sweat.

I’ll also say that FringeMan worked extremely hard on this bathroom.  Plumbing is always a nightmare, but especially in this house.  Under the floor, there is a two foot x two foot space where all the plumbing goes.  It’s virtually inaccessible from the basement, so FringeMan had to tear up the floor to re-plumb everything.

He’ll be the first to admit he’s an electrician and not a plumber, but I think he’s a mighty fine plumber when we’re desperate he chooses.

We also had a chimney in this bathroom.  Odd?  Not when you live in a house that’s over a hundred years old.  Things get a little tricky when you buy any house built prior to 1950.  That’s not a professional opinion, but I believe it.

In our old bathroom we also had two different levels of floor.  There was actually a step up right after the toilet.  You’ve heard of a sunken living room, but did you ever consider having a sunken toilet?

I enjoy a flat floor in my bathroom.  It makes middle-of-the-night runs safer.

So there you have it.  Our almost finished bathroom.  I am extremely thankful to be able to brush my teeth at the bathroom sink.  Thank you FringeMan for all your hard work!

Are you working on any home renovation projects?

A Jelly Bean Kinda Weekend

18 Apr

spring cupcakesJelly Beans

Peeps

Baked Ziti

Colored Eggs

Laughter

New Friends

Sunshine in Rain

Happy Monday!

This weekend was all food, friends, football, fun, Easter eggs, and doggie bags.  FringeKid decorated sixty cupcakes and ate a few less.

jelly bean cupcake We had our local community college’s Bible club over for dinner on Sunday and it was pure delight.  Our community college is not just for our community.  It’s one of the few community colleges in New York that has housing, so all but one boy was from NYC.

Six pounds of pasta + a huge pot of sauce + five pounds of cheese = a whole bunch of food!

By Saturday evening I vowed to never cook again.  So far it’s working, but I’m not sure how much longer we can live on leftovers.

How was your weekend?

What did you do?

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