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BBQ Novice

30 May

I was born in the north, New York to be exact.  Please don’t hold that against me.  I know for some it is the unpardonable sin, but just because I wasn’t weened on sweet tea doesn’t mean I don’t like barbeque.

There’s something about southern food, and it’s more than just artery clogging.  They use sugar.  REAL sugar.  And butter and cream and they have Steak & Shake!

Ok, so maybe it is artery clogging, but we all have to go somehow.  May as well be with a big bowl of banana pudding.

This weekend my husband was telling my mother about some of the churches he’s preached in recently.  When he said a name and location, I piped in “They made the best green fluffy marshmallow fruit stuff.”  or “Their banana pudding was to die for.  I can almost taste it.”

I promise I don’t go to church just to eat, but if they’re going to feed me, I can’t be rude.  Now can I?

Of course not, but just so you know, I did not take seconds on the banana pudding.   I wanted to very much, but I showed restraint.

Last week I was dreaming of white sandy beaches and barbeque.  I couldn’t get the luscious dark red sauce out of my mind, so I determined to make pulled pork sandwiches this weekend.  I remember seeing like thirty thousand barbeque recipes on Pinterest, but when I went looking, I hadn’t pinned a one.  Huh?  I always Pin when I’m hungry.  They have the most tantalizing photos of food.  I can drool all night and not gain an ounce.  It’s kind of like the patch for smokers, only it’s for food addicts.

So I did what any fearless culinary novice would do, I improvised.  I saw no less than a hundred recipes that used three ingredients – soda, BBQ sauce, and salt/pepper.  Lot’s of people used diet soda in their BBQ, but I decided to throw caution to the wind and use the real stuff.  I don’t think anyone with sweet tea running through their veins would use Diet Pepsi.  Correct me if I’m wrong.

Barbeque Pulled Pork SandwichIn the lineup is Sweet Baby Ray’s BBQ Sauce, Dr. Pepper, and Seasoned Salt.  Next time I make it, I’ll add some other spices, red pepper flakes for sure.  It could have used more kick, but it was very tasty.

Finding a pork roast was no small task.  I went to two grocery stores and that’s all there is in a thirty mile radius.  Finally I found a roast at the local butcher shop and I just bought two, because who doesn’t want to eat barbeque two meals a day for a week.

I sprinkled the roasts with seasoned salt, put the roast in the crockpot, added Dr. Pepper with abandon, and squeezed about half the large bottle of barbeque sauce all over the meat.  Then I let it cook all day.

After it was cooked, I drained off some fat from the top, and pulled apart the pork.  I returned the pulled pork to the crockpot and let it absorb all the juice.  In its pulled form, it stayed in the crockpot for another hour.  Then I loaded it on whole wheat rolls, because I’m healthy like that, and gave it another good squeeze of sauce.

The only thing missing was the banana pudding, but I’m on a diet you know.

It’s My Business

25 May

Today I’m linking up with Jennifer Rizzo and her Show us Your Shoppe linky party.  I know many of you already know about my Fringe Vanilla, but I have lots of new readers and I wanted to share.  So forgive me if you’ve been introduced before…please and thank you.

One cold morning my neighbor, the pastry chef, and I sat sipping our steaming cups of tea and eating another of the delectable sugar and butter concoctions my friend created. It was on that calorie filled day I shared my desire to make vanilla extract. A plan was hatched and Fringe Vanilla was born, only its birth took another two years. That’s the way babies are sometimes. Either they are breaking free from the confines of their momma or they never want to come out and greet the world. I am just happy to say Fringe Vanilla is out and it’s changing the way we bake.

Not really, but I thought I should err on the side of dramatic for this introduction.

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P.S. A HUGE Thank You to my super-smart, talented, and always beautiful sister-in-law, a family photographer in the Panhandle of Florida, for the lovely Fringe Vanilla photos

In Anticipation of a Long Weekend Eating BBQ

25 May

Windmill Farm

My kids are off from school and don’t go back until Wednesday.  They have bunches of extra snow days that they didn’t use this year.  It was almost the year without snow and the snow we did get wasn’t worth mentioning.  I am not complaining one little bit.

We’ll be having fun and pretending we’re on summer break like the rest of the America who doesn’t live in the Northeast.

My mom is also visiting for the long weekend.  I hope you have as much fun as we’re planning on having.  What I’m looking forward to the most is dinner on Saturday – BBQ Pulled Pork Sandwiches.  I’m trying a new recipe and I’ll be sure to take pictures and share if it turns out good.  If it doesn’t, I’ll be very sad, because I went to two grocery stores and a butcher looking for a big pork roast to use.

Happy Memorial Day to you!

NY Windfarm

Note:  These photos are of a windfarm in New York.  I used PicMonkey.com to edit them.  I’m loving that website.  Have you tried it yet?

Any big plans for Memorial Day?

Jealous of a Lizard’s Life

24 May

The men in my family are outside setting cricket traps, because everybody wants to start a breeding program for crickets.  Don’t they?

I should have gone to agricultural school since I’m practically living on a farm.  Slippy the lizard is more pampered than me.  He gets his cage misted twice a day and suns himself under a UV light.  Hello people!  It’s my job to lay in the sun and get misted.

So this is what life comes to…being jealous of a long-tailed lizard.  I never would have thought it.

For the record, I like Hot Shot the fish better than the lizard.  He’s quite a social fish as far as fish go.  I suppose it says something about my social life when I’m spending time with a fish.

The other animals we’re breading are spiders and dust bunnies.  I’m particularly concerned about the spider hanging from the ceiling right above my bed.  I was hoping he would just move on, but he seems to be lurking in the shadows waiting for me to rest my head on the pillow.

A bug-less world is the one good thing about winter.

You didn’t come here to hear about my exotic animals (reptiles or insects) though, so let’s change the subject, shall we?

Let’s talk about boys, tween boys.  They are odd creatures.  My son, not quite child, not quite teen is becoming more unusual with each passing day.  Tonight on our walk by the river, he dropped to the ground and somersaulted down the road before I could wonder at his unusual behavior.  He’s antsy, crawling out of his skin and I’m not sure how to keep him busy and fulfilled.

I remember wishing I was teenager, grown up enough to be a big kid, but not quite old enough to pay rent.  Those were the good old days.  I can relate to girls, the shopping, the whispering about boys, the senseless chatter, but boys…I don’t know about them.

Since my son wants to battle boats (really he just wants to battle and doesn’t understand why we won’t buy him a sharpened sword so he can practice sword fighting with his friends), FringeMan bought a few remote control boats.  It’s a guy thing they can do together.  Kind of like “you sunk my battleship” and stuff.

Whatever floats their boats!

(Did you catch that?  Pun intended.  I’m all kinds of witty tonight.)

Anyway I’ll just stop chattering and show you some pictures.  Notice that Barbie has as good a life as the lizard.

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So what keeps your boys busy?

WIWW – Inspiration Pinterest

23 May

It’s What I Wore Wednesday time again.   For me browsing through all the links and admiring other women’s clothes isn’t about “wanting” or “buying” something I don’t have.  It’s all about finding inspiration to wear what’s already in my closet, because let’s face it, the closet could be full and I’ll still stand around in my robe saying I have nothing to wear.

This week, I looked to Pinterest for inspiration.  If you cannot find inspiration on Pinterest, you are either dead or a man.  No offense men.

So here goes…It’s What I Wore this week.

For this first outfit, my inspiration came directly from Pinterest.

Thursday

Jeans Kohl’s , Shirt GAP, Necklace Francescas

Shoes Famous Footwear

I just knew you’d want to see my feet.  That’s why I took this picture.

I jest.

Thursday

I am really thankful for some sunshiny days this past week. I love sunshine!

Skort Kohl’s, Shirt GAP, Sandals Thrifted

Friday

FringeMan and I had a date at Panera Bread.  The kids participated in Parent’s Night Out.  My children refer to it as Kid’s Night Out and I don’t care what it’s called as long as I get OUT.

Once again my inspiration came from Pinterest.  I already had these clothes in my closet.

Same jeans from Kohl’s, Shirt is Hand-me-Down, Sweater is Yard Sale, Shoes K-Mart last spring

Saturday

Out with my daughter making memories and buying fish.

Shirt & Skirt Old Navy

Sunday

I know this outfit doesn’t “match” or even “go”, but I was in a hurry and couldn’t find anything to coordinate.  I just pretended I meant to look miss-matched.

maxi skirt

Skirt Thrifted, Shirt Old Navy

Shoes K-Mart

And that’s it for this week.  I quit taking pictures on Sunday, because I can only bore you to death with so many pictures of my feet.  Now go check out The Pleated Poppy and Transatlantic Blonde for some real inspiration.

I linked the Pinterest photos to their original sources, so you can click on the photo for the source.

I Stop for It

22 May

Sometimes FringeMan and I have different opinions.  We don’t always agree, especially when it comes to junk.  I see treasure in things he thinks are trash, and sometimes he sees the diamond in what I know is lump of useless coal.  That’s what keeps us from being hoarders.  We compromise, throw stuff out, and vow to never bring another piece of junk into the house again.

I promised myself in my head that I wouldn’t stop at any yard sales this summer.  I mean, what do I need?  If I’ve lived this long wihtout it, it most certainly cannot be a need.  I told myself not to do anything impulsive, especially when a trash heap is involved.  On Saturday I passed by four SALE signs without even a second glance.  I was pretty confident I had temptation beat.  It’s been about six weeks since an M&M went through my lips and if I can have victory over candy-coated chocolate, anything is possible.  I was flying high until Sunday night.

The glance was purely accidental.  I promise and my fingers are not crossed behind my back.  I didn’t mean to fall in love, but that’s the way it happens isn’t it?

The pile of junk was so small, just four little things.  My head spun on my shoulders like a broken record, and before I could utter a gasp, Fringeman said, “Oh, no.  Don’t even look!  We can’t bring any junk into the house.”

All I heard was “Blah, blah, blah.”

“Did you see that metal cart?”  I asked.

“You mean that piece of junk?  No way am I stopping.”

“But it’s sunshiny yellow.”

He turned around of course.  He loves me, and besides I went to the Harley Dealership with him.  Remember?

vintage yellow cart

She cleaned up real well.  Don’t ya think?

vintage yellow cart nightstand

FringeMan always wants to know “What are you going to do with it?”

I can’t always answer that question right away, mostly because I know he won’t like the answer.

I don’t think he’s noticed that it’s in our bedroom yet.  By the time he does, it will be part of the family.  Besides, it was FREE.  How could I let it go to the dump?

I’m historian almost, a rescuer of Americana.  Now I just have to convince FringeMan of that.

Do odd items in the middle of a rubbish heap sometimes call your name?

P.S.  The lamp is another rescue.  You can see my $10 makeover HERE.

The Cost of Free

21 May

I told you how doing a simple favor for my neighbor ended up with me spending a whole bunch of money.  I’m still confused by how love thy neighbor turned into buy my kids fish, but life is funny like that.  I just have to go with the flow until the flow ends up draining my bank account.  Then I have to set boundaries, because my kids would be terribly disappointed when there was nothing to eat in the house except for their pet fish, and they sure as heck wouldn’t want me frying up their little swimmer friends for dinner.

So after much arguing discussion between the children, two trips to the pet store (buying nothing), and hours of online price shopping, my kids informed us that they could only afford three fish and no heater.  They even scratched the very cool, bubbling sunken ship off their list.  Oh, the sacrifice!

You’re probably thinking I gave them a budget of twenty bucks, but no.  I’m a modern parent who knows the price of pets, even the ones who can’t fetch my slippers.  They had a combined budget of fifty dollars, twenty-five a piece.  Do you know how many articles of clearance clothing I can buy for fifty bucks?  I assure you I would have more shirts than the three fish could wear.

If you’ve ever thought about buying fish, let me encourage you in your decision.  Walk away from the fish.  Buy a Finding Nemo DVD and call it good.

The truth is I’m not sure we could keep fish alive anyhow.  I hate wasting money, but wasting money to watch your fishies float to the top of the tank in death is a bad way to spend a paycheck, so I summoned my inner persuasive parent and reminded them of their original dream.

All my daughter wanted was a lone Betta fish to swim in a glass bowl in her room.  She wanted to watch him as she fell asleep.  My son, he wanted a frog or a crab or a snake, but I told him I would shoot a snake, so he woke up from that dream.

Just because something is free doesn’t mean it won’t cost you more money than you want to spend.

I’m happy to say our third trip to the pet store was a charm.  My daughter is happy with Hot Shot, her pet Betta.

My son, well, we compromised.  He walked away with a long-tailed lizard who came with a fourteen day money back guarantee.  Thank God, because he isn’t looking too good and it’s only day two.

In the end, my kids got what they wanted and I got the change.  It’s nice when a dream comes true.

Tell me, what pets do your kids want?

The Things Kids Remember

19 May

It’s funny what kids remember.  The best memories are the ones parents least suspect.  My fondest childhood memories are:

Homemade pizza on a snow day

After-school walks with my grandmother that too often took us to a pizza place

Playing Othello with my grandfather

Stopping for a Wendy’s Frosty after my orthodontist appointments

Picnics in the park

Summer days in my cousin’s pool

Going to work with my uncle and then stopping at Friendly’s for the biggest sundae they served

Illegal fireworks on the fourth of July

Watching the A-Team with my family

None of these memories are terribly out of the ordinary, but when I think back over my childhood, these are the good things pop into my mind.  A few of these events only happened a handful of times, but they left an impression.  At the time, my family probably didn’t even realize they were helping me make memories that would last a lifetime.    Just like I didn’t understand that two years ago my daughter and I did something that she would never forget.

Early on a Saturday morning we walked into town, stopped at the bakery to get two donuts, and ate them in the park.  It was such a simple morning.  I never gave it another thought, but my daughter loved that time we spent together.  She talks about all the time, so this morning we finally enjoyed a repeat.

The sun was shining and it was warm early.  We armed ourselves with a few dollars and a camera and set off for our walk across town. It was the most beautiful morning.  One we’ll both remember for years to come.  I even willingly broke my diet for a donut with my daughter.

rainbow sprinkled donut

This morning was worth every single sprinkled calorie.

What good memories do you have from your childhood?

Have you done any special memory making with your own children lately?

This Business of Blogging

17 May

I’ve been tossing around an idea for a long time, but it’s kind of scary.  It would require me to take a chance, hence the reason I haven’t done it yet; however, it’s been on the brain and I’m wondering if now might be the right time.  Will you help me make an informed decision?

I’m talking about self-hosting my WordPress blog.  You see, The Domestic Fringe doesn’t have sponsors or advertisers because it’s against the WordPress rules.  Now I love WordPress.  I’m one of their biggest fans, but unlike Blogger, they have some pretty strict rules about what you can and cannot do.  I respect that since they provide such great service for FREE.

You can never beat free – a big reason I’m still here blogging.

I’d like to do more though.  Right now WordPress throws an ad on my page.  I never even get to see the ad or video they insert and I would like a bit more control over that.  I’d also enjoy making a buck off the blog if that’s possible, and believe me, I have no grand delusions about getting rich.  I just want to expand a little, take on some sponsors, and maybe sell a little ad space.  Nothing crazy.  Just a start.

Here’s my problem.  FEAR.

I can talk myself out of anything.  ANY-THING!

It will be too much trouble transferring my site to a self-hosted WordPress site.  I don’t have enough facebook followers.  My stats are too low.  My readers won’t be able to find my blog if I move.  I’ll lose everything I’ve ever written.  I’ll have to pay a monthly hosting fee.  I’ll have to maintain my site myself.  Yada, yada, yada, yada…

You see?

That’s exactly why I haven’t done it.  I’m not much of a risk taker.  I haven’t ever jumped out of a plane, gotten a tattoo of my imaginary friend in the first grade, or threw my money into the stock market.

Sometimes I’m too safe for my own good.  Anything worth getting takes hard work and certain measure of risk, faith if you will.

Maybe it’s time to take the plunge.  I am claiming to live on the Fringe here.

Here’s where you can help me out…Do you self-host?  Have you tried to turn your blog into a little more than a hobby?  How many readers are enough?  Will I just be throwing my money away?

Help a confused girl out, will ya?  Tell me your story please.

And for the record, I didn’t have an imaginary friend in the first grace and I have no money to throw into the stock market.  I just didn’t want you to think I’m stuffing my mattress with cash and talking to little people in my head.

Thanks for the help!

10 Things I’ve Learned about Dieting

16 May

I’m on a diet.  That should be explanation enough for any weird moods and hallucinations of cheeseburgers. I find myself googling every yummy food known to man in order to get a calorie count, only to realize I cannot eat it, because diets only let you eat the caloric equivalent of a piece of unbuttered toast and water.

Source: google.com via Tricia on Pinterest

I’m beginning to think liposuction doesn’t sound so bad after all.   So what if they have to gash a whole in your body, insert a vacuum hose, and suck until they hit bone, it’s gotta be an outpatient procedure nowadays.  Doesn’t it?  The only drawback is I have every bit of confidence that I could replace all that fat within a year.  That, and then there’s the money, and the cutting.  Ya, I should never underestimate someone taking a scalpel to my skin.

So I’m back to being on a diet.  This time it’s for real.  It’s not just a reconnaissance mission to take back my thighs.  I’m taking back my whole chubby self, double chin and all.  I hope there’s an exchange policy on flab.

Source: google.co.uk via Tricia on Pinterest

I’m down twelve pounds.  Doesn’t seem like much, but I did fit comfortably back into a pair of jeans I haven’t worn in quite some time.  The bummer is I’ve decided I hate the jeans.  Go figure!  It’s just my luck.  I’m stuck wearing jeans that are a size too big or jeans I hate.  Now I’m going to have to lose another size so I can justify buying a new pair.  That’s all there is too it.

Here are some things I’ve learned since being on a diet.

1.  Calories count, so count your calories.  (I just made that up this second, but doesn’t it sound like a slogan from a diet plan?)

Source: tumblr.com via Tricia on Pinterest

2.  You can sit by and watch your family eat goodies and say NO.  You will live to have another Oreo cookie.

3.  Exercise can be as simple as taking a walk with your family, but don’t overestimate the amount of calories you burned on your walk.  It was probably like ten.

Source: media.photobucket.com via Tricia on Pinterest

4.  Food is not your enemy, appetite is your enemy.  What you need and want you want are drastically different.

5.  Eat foods that are full of good things like fiber and protein.

6.  If you’re hungry, drink some water and wait a while.  If you’re still hungry, eat something, but make sure the calories are counted in your overall total for the day.

7.  Eat for the right reasons.  In my family, we tend to overeat just because something tastes good.  “It tastes so good” is not enough reason to eat more.

8.  Fad diets are not for me.  I won’t stick to them for more than three days.  I have to eat regular (to me) foods or else I won’t achieve long-term success.  Translate:  Find a meal plan that works into your budget, lifestyle, and taste.

Source: someecards.com via Tricia on Pinterest

9.  No one may notice your accomplishments, but keep going.  Brainwash your child into telling you, at least once a day, you look thinner.

10.  Make baby step goals.  If I tell myself that I need to lose twenty pounds, I’ll quit before I even start.  So I tell myself five pounds and then another five.  I’m three pounds away from my next goal.

Believe me, I’m no dieting expert.  I’m one of those women who actually enjoys eating, and it’s downright shocking how much food I can consume when I don’t stop myself.  I do not have a fast metabolism and dare I admit this, being a bit overweight doesn’t even bother me that much when I look in the mirror.  I don’t care enough to lose the weight.  What makes me diet from time to time is that I feel bad when I’m overweight.  Carrying around an extra ten, fifteen, or twenty pounds makes a huge difference.  It’s a difference I can feel when I’m sitting down and bending over.  It’s uncomfortable and I hate being uncomfortable in my own skin.

I don’t think weight management is necessarily about a number.  It’s about getting to a place where you feel good.  I suspect when you feel good, you’ll look good too.

Source: someecards.com via Tricia on Pinterest

So how about you share your accomplishments, or maybe what you’ve learned about dieting?

If you’re one of those girls who can eat a cow without even getting a gas bubble, don’t tell me please.  Jealousy isn’t good for my soul. ;-)

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